What’s the best way to get over someone you love?
08.06.2025 06:31
You're an obsessed/insecure/desperate simp/immature, depending on actions you did.
You want to forget him/her completely. But ever thought why? And what do you mean by getting over?
It's as harmful and futile to try to force forget, as much as it is to try to force get someone.
Although if you're just a stubborn egoistic obsessed insecure immature teenager, grow up. Understand that you just feel that you can shift the orbit of the universe if you get your dream girl, BUT YOU CAN'T.
Focus on other things, and people, stay busy, stay lively, work, make goals, have hobbies, have friends and relax.
Because you were just unlucky in love?
Are female judges more lenient than male ones?
Or are you just jealous and he/she hurt your ego by rejecting you?
Because only you LOVED?
Or because they’re happy without you.
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Or because you had created a random perfect image of them and they just broke your delusion?
True love, if one sided, does hurt and we want to forget or get over people, just keep going on with life, keep living and you'll get over it.
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But do make sure you aren't only lost in their thoughts, cry but only when it’s been too much.
Because the one you cared for doesn’t care for you?
Or you just over-cared expecting the same in return but are now disappointed?
How do I come out as queer to my best friend in a funny and stupid way?
Now, while it may not be just a ‘she’ it might also be a ‘he’. What’s more important to know, is that, you can’t exactly delete someone from your head. Infact forcing.
If you do remember them occasionally and feel like crying, don't resist, cry, it'll gradually reduce on its own.
If you relate to all the first cases you need to, above all, accept, that they are not gonna either stay with you, and nor are they ginna get away from your past.
Because it hurts that they are not with you?
You need to start treating people like people, not achievements.
If you're the type of all second cases, then, acceptance is still a must but,
Do you consider yourself pretty?
Because they aren’t what they showed themselves to be?
I love getting tired of loving that someone though…
Or because it hurts because they are with someone else?
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Or because she doesn’t love you back?
Stop fawning at others and work more on yourself, understand that getting that one person isn't the only thing.
Because you are in sorrow without them?